Saturday, January 28, 2012

Saturday Night With My Sisters...


Last Night (Friday) my girlfriend Kelly suggested having dinner together Saturday night. Well, I am not the kind of gal who says no to a night out with her sisters! Besides I am still trying to make up for all the lost girl time due to my 4 day trip with the boys to Vegas! It was Just the four of us tonight. It was Saturday night after all and most of the other girls were tied up. I did get my ex-girlfriend to join us, and she had a great time! She will be coming out with us on Tuesday for out regular girls night out! How cool is it that even my ex-girlfriends love being "Candi Girls"! My circle of girlfriends keeps growing by leaps and bounds! It is so much fun!



So tomorrow is Sunday and I am going to spend the entire day in girl mode! I had to work today, so I am very happy I had a opportunity to go out. I was hoping for an entire weekend of girl time but I will get to spend 75% of it as Candice. My girlfriends think they spotted another transgendered gurl at the bar tonight, just down from where we were. I am not convinced it was another gurl. If  it was she looked really good. May have been a TS. I did how ever get more than a few knowing glances from her through the time she was there. Who Knows. If it was a transgendered gurl, more power to her!


My friend Michelle A.K.A. the Queen and High Priestess of purses and heels has been going through her closet and has almost 50 bags! This girl is getting a few of them. She emailed me photos and I got to pick a few. How sweet is that! Love her! I suggested she bring the rest of the ones she does not want with her Tuesday night. That way the other girls can have a crack at her stash of purses!  My foot is doing much better but I still had to do flats tonight. I am hoping I can rock some nice heels on Tuesday!


My friend Kelly may come over to my place Wednesday night to try on wigs to see how she would look. I got my girlfriend Jennifer into wigs and she loves them! It is so much fun being able to change your hair style and color on a whim. What girl does not like to play dress-up! It one of the greatest pleasures a woman has... I did say ONE of the greatest, not THE greatest! :-) I will be posting photos tomorrow I will try a few different outfits just to play around. I know I will be spending the rest of tonight and all of tomorrow in girl-land, but I cant wait for Tuesday night with the girls!


Well I got to go and wash my face and get ready for bed kids. I hope you all have a safe and very feminine weekend! XXOO!

Candi


Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Out With The Girls Again!


It is so nice to out with my girlfriends again. This past week has been man-hell... It has been months since I have spent that much time in guy mode. I was really getting depressed. Thank God for my sisters! We went out to a nice little bistro for dinner and girl talk. My foot is still jacked up from the trip so I had to wear my little white tennies. I tried to wear some cute flats but my foot so still so swollen, the tennies were the only shoes I could get into! I am a high heel girl! I like flats, but I prefer heels any day. I am so depressed about it. My friend Michelle had a similar problem with a foot injury. So being a high heel girl herself we joked about wearing our "comfortable" (A.K.A. lesbian) shoes! Because of my limited shoe choice I went more casual than normal. striped racer back tee with a new light grey cable knit sweater and grey knit pants with the white tennies. Being a guy is so secondary now that it feels strange to be dressed in men's clothing! Even going to work I feel uncomfortable wearing my male work clothes.This week was very hard on me. Its really not who I am anymore. I love being one of the girls!


I took the past two days off to rest my foot and tomorrow its back to the salt mine for this girl. We have picked the location for next weeks GNO and I cant wait! I am going to see a movie with my girlfriend Kelly on Thursday as Candice. I need to make up for this past week of overt maleness! Like I said in my last post; I would skip a guys night out any day for a night with my girlfriends. If I am not working Saturday I will get to spend the weekend as Candice! Otherwise I still have all day Sunday to just be my female self.


Next GNO I will bring up our purposed girls weekend trip to Vegas. OMG, that would be so much fun and a dream come true for this girl! It s not really about Vegas. Its about being together with my girlfriends. Its another stepping stone in my development as a woman. I love the fact that I am not seen as a guy anymore when I am out with them as Candi. As a side note I have been off my feet for three days with this foot problem and today was the first time I have had a chance to shave my legs! My goodness it felt soooo good! smooth legs are nice! Body hair is gross. I wish I could be naturally hairless from the ears down!


Its good to be home and good to have my girl on! I love you all!

XXOO
Candi.

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Home Again.




Vegas was nice but that much time in guy mode was making me nuts! I came back sick. It happens every year on this trip. I was going to have dinner with one of my girlfriends tonight in girl mode but I had to cancel. And to top it off, I jacked up my left foot! Friday I was on my feet all day and I had decided to wear these light weight shoes thinking it would be more comfortable. No it was not. the lack of support and cushioning killed me. My foot is still swollen and hurts like hell. So I guess it will be flats for Tuesdays dinner with the girls!

I have spent the whole day in comfy yoga pants and a warm knit top and sweater. I would post a photo but I lost my SD card reader someplace. I packed it and now I can't find it... just add it to the list of things that have gone wrong with this trip! It really is nice to be back home. I needed this day to rest to try and feel better.

 
I am posting some older photos because I need to find my card reader or just buy a new one. Ugh! Well Tuesday is girls night out and I think with this lame foot it will be flats that night! Looking back over the last few days away It was nice to see my old guy friends. But being with them was too destructive. It was nothing but excessive eating and drinking. Friday night was the worst of it 12-13 beers and shots of Absinthe! Is it no wonder my immune system was compromised. I am not saying that I don't drink with the girls. I am saying that with my girlfriends its more tempered. As a guy it becomes a power drinking binge. With the girls its more abut fun and sisterhood. I love my girlfriends and would ditch the guys anytime for a good girls night out! I need my girl time. I love the guys too, but sometimes its too much. In fact I am reconsidering even going on this trip next year. I will probably still go but the way I feel now, its really not who I am anymore.

The guys are all married and when we are at the trade show its nothing but eyeballing the booth girls and getting calendars and posters singed by them. Its like being with a bunch of adolescent boys, not grown men.
Even as I guy I am not like that. I play along but I make comments about the womanizing. and never bother with the booth girls.

Not having any real girl time was hard. Walking around Vegas with women all dressed up and having fun was making me crazy with envy! Checking out the outfits and styles was so much fun. I got to get the girls Vegas getaway weekend planned soon!

I am going to see if I can go out with the girlfriend I had to cancel on for Wednesday or Thursday night. and check if any others want to join us. I need to get out as much as I can this week. I feel like I need to make up for lost time.

Well this girl is going to bed. I will have a new post and new photos late Tuesday night after I get home form dinner.

Love you all and its good to be home!
Candi

well this girl needs to go to bed

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Sin City


I am in Vegas for a trade show and it looks like I will be in guy drab purgatory for the next four days! Ugh! the photos on this post are what I have on this netbook and are a few months old from this past summer's outings.

Sunday night out as Candice with my friend can't come fast enough! At least I have clothing with me so I can girl up in my room... I know its sad but I have commitments every night with my associates and I will have no opportunity to get away. Bummer.

If anything changes I will let you know. I will do everything I can to get some girl time.


Love you all!
Candi

Monday, January 16, 2012

GNO...


Had a great night out with the girls tonight, Two hours of good food and good conversation. I wish I never had to "take the girl off" again. Everything is so much better for me as a woman. I know its not practical and I need to live as a man to make my living. But one day I will be free of that shackle. I have another blog I mentioned in passing in my last post. My male self is going through a struggle dealing with some issues. The funny thing is as Candice I can handle the problems of my male side with ease. As a woman I am more balanced, focused, disciplined and Happier! Girls do have more fun! Tonight I had a really nice outfit on with nice pumps. the girls loved it. Going back to guy drab is so boring!


As our food was served the conversation moved on to my trip to Vegas tomorrow, and how sad it is that I have to pack all those ugly boy clothes! True, but I will have a few items for Candice; A nightgown, yoga pants a few tops and a nice pair of heels  with a outfit to wear if I do get to go out. With all this talk of Vegas the possibility of a weekend trip to Sin City with the girls came up. We all agreed I would be a blast. Now we just need to pick a date down the road. I would love a trip like that!


Thinking about a Vegas trip has me thinking about my transgendered "bucket list" I am adding the purposed trip to Vegas to the bucket. I also want to go see  a play and spend an entire week as Candice. A week without any interruptions that require me to be male. That would be heaven. Also just added to the list is a trip to next years Southern Comfort Conference. For those who don't know it is a major crossdressing/transgender convention held every year in Atlanta. When I return from Vegas I am going to have dinner as Candice with my new friend Rachel. She is such a beautiful and sweet woman. She is the one I outed myself to last night over dinner. Then later in the week I will be having dinner with my drear friend Kelly. she is one of the original Candi Girls. and a huge supporter on mine. I love her! I asked her if she wanted to have dinner with my female side or my male side. She said "surprise me"... I told her that given the chance I will always come default to my feminine side!


My male side is a competitive shooter, so I thought I would take a few photos with one of my AR's... What do you all think?




Armed and transgendered! LOL.


Well friends I am off to bed. I hope you all have sweet dreams!
Candi

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Candice Has a New Girlfriend.


Hello everyone! tonight I was out in guy drab having dinner with a new friend whom I have only known for a short time. I outed myself and told her about Candice and this blog. She is super supportive and loving about it! Again by opening myself up and taking a chance I built a stronger bond and friendship with a wonderful woman. I also told her about a second blog I have started keeping that helps my male side deal with some of his issues. Again, nothing but support and understanding. Plans have been made for her and I to go out next Sunday so she can meet me as Candice. Fun! It is so nice having the strength to put everything on the table. and let people decide for themselves if they can accept me as a transgender person. So far everyone has! Not all of my friends who know participate in the girls nights out. Or has gone out with Candice, and thats okay. But all respect me as a person and a good friend and that is all that really matters. 

Tomorrow is girls night out. I can't wait. I have picked out two outfits and I just need chose one. Of course I will be posting photos tomorrow night after I get home. Tuesday I am off to Las Vegas for a trade show. I looked at my schedule and it looks like I will not have time to go out as Candice. But I will pack one outfit just in the off chance I can go out. Overall it will be nice to get away and reconnect with old friends.



Well I am off to bed XXOO
Candi




Friday, January 13, 2012

Cinderella Grows Up or A Funny Thing Happened on The Way to The Mall


Every gurl grows up... Early on as a crossdresser I went through a period were I bought clothing with no rhyme or reason. I got them because I liked how the clothes looked, not if it fit my style (as if I had a style back then!). Or even if it was something I would actually wear! This commonly known as the "Cinderella Stage". Simply put as a crossdresser we go through a time were we go crazy and try out all sorts of  looks. Much like a teenage girl would trying to find what works for her. Sometimes for some crossdressers or transgendered women, a particular feminine ideal is sought after. It could be anything from the classic office girl/secretary look to period fashions from the 1950s. It can even push the extreme with sexual/fetish tones like dressing as a hooker or a French maid. Every gurl is different and that is okay.

Today as a mature transgendered woman. I have found my style. I fairly know what works and what does not. I no longer buy clothing in "bulk". Now its about putting a outfit together, finding that needed piece. I pay attention to trends and current fashions. I adapt my style to what is now and still honor the classics that help build my wardrobes foundation. I love it. I love the hunt for that elusive item that pulls the look together. The excitement when you find something unexpected, and it gives you new ideas.


It is the fluid nature of woman's fashions that inspire me. Allowing me to be creative while expressing who I am as a woman. I have girlfriends who hate to shop.... Shocking I know... But not this gal! Every time I am out with my girlfriends I am complemented on my look, my outfit, my shoes, etc. and I love it. What girl does not? I love being a woman. I love looking the best I can. Knowing I can pull anything off from a little black dress to a day of shopping to a dinner date with the ladies with style is a real confidence builder.


 I hope every gurl out there  has the chance to find her own style. Even if she never leaves her closet she should fill it with fabulous inspiring things that may give her the poise to leave that closet behind.

Love you all!

XO,
Candi.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

The New Normal...



I kind of borrowed the title of this post from a friends blog. She recently told the story about her cat who has been terrorized by all the noise and racket going on with her home renovation project. But eventually the cat had gotten used to all the commotion and goings on. So he now sits calmly and watches everything transpire with ease, rather than hide under the nearest bed. All the chaos and nose are now normal to the little fella. He has adapted to his new situation. His "new normal". And that is kind of what is happening to me as Candice. 


I am rapidly adapting to my new environment, my new life as a woman. As Candice I have a growing number of friends who really identify my feminine self separately from my male self. In fact as a woman I am being rapidly accepted truly as one of the "girls". As a woman I have a developing independent social structure that parallels that of my male side. Being Candice and becoming more feminine has become my "new normal". Candice really has a life of her own and it is wonderful! 


I have never been happier! I love being a woman. I know that under the wig and fabulous top is a man who can open jars, lift heavy objects, read maps and take out the trash... but that is not who I am. My male self is only a small part of my makeup. In my heart, in my soul I am more female then male. Both genders coexist in the sane body. Finding balance between the two sides is challenging, but I am finding success. And with all the love and support of my friends have given me it becomes easier every day. When I started this journey, venturing out into the civilian world as Candice, I was concerned about being spotted by my neighbors. Or running into someone I know. Fearful of stares, of judgmental attitudes. The list goes on. The reality of it all is that as I spend more time as Candice, as a woman, going about my business as such those fears have dissipated. I walk out my door all the time as my female self. My neighbors have seen me, and one one either cares or notices. I have been spotted in public by people I know and I have walked up to people I know who did not recognize me to say hi. Not one person has said boo or given me a truly negative reaction. In fact most are enthusiastic and supportive. I have been spotted as a transgendered woman or crossdresser a few times at different venues by other patrons. But again. I normally get a smile or a wink rather than a scowl or the stink eye. I have spent an entire weekend as a woman. Running errands and and such, and loving every second of it. I spend all my time that I am not required to be a guy as a woman. Being female like I said earlier, is my "new normal" 

    
Tonight I was out with a great group of ladies. Some were old friends meeting Candice for the first time. Others have been Candice's girlfriends from the beginning. Spending time with your sisters is so much fun. In all the guys nights out I have had as a man, none compare to the fun I have with the girls! We had a nice dinner and laughed our butts off! We talked about makeup and how much some of us love Bare Essentials. We talked about "toys" We talked about Brazilian  Blow Outs and "Brazilians" (I just resistantly learned the difference!). We talked about OB/GYN visits. and so much more. The best part is being able to openly express you feelings and emotions. Men do not do that. With the guys its talking about work followed by 45 min talking about some fantasy football team. Is it any wonder I rather be a girl! it is so much more interesting to find out where to get a good deal on shoes! And what vibrator/toy works best! Our plan is to go out next Monday night rather than or regular Tuesday night, because I am flying to Las Vegas for a trade show on Tuesday, and I will be gone most of next week




I will not have much time while in Vegas to get my girl on.But I will try. I am going to go through my Facebook contacts and see if I can find out what is going on while I am there. I would love to get out at least one night during my trip. If not I will pack somethings to wear and sleep in when back at the room so I can get my girl on. 


Well its off to bed girls! Love you all! 

XXOO,

Candi.

Saturday, January 7, 2012

The Night of the LBD...


Tonight I attended the black tie formal wine tasting as Candice! What a great night!. About half a dozen of my girlfriends who know me as Candice also attended. There were over 100 guests and not a single negative reaction! Granted that most of them know me or knew of me. Add to the fact that I have a reputation as a good stand up guy, and that I am well liked and respected (man I sound awesome!). it stands little reason, that if you treat people well you get the same back. I really do believe in Carma. and I work hard at putting out to the universe as much as I can. The fun real was watching the faces of the people as they did double and triple takes once they realized who I was! Even some of the people who know me very well did not even recognize me! What a blast! The biggest and most supportive reactions were from the women. Most of them could not keep their hands off my boobs! I was getting felt up left and right!I have found that when dressed as a woman, women fall allover you! There is something disarming about a man in a dress. I have had this happen every time I have dressed up for other parties and events. The gathering was also a good opportunity out myself to two more long term female friends! Both loved it and will be joining the regular girls and I for our Tuesday night get together.



On the way to the party I met up with four of my girl friends for a  pre-party cocktail at a very nice place. While there I ran into three other women I know, who up to that point did not have any idea Candice even existed... Well now they do! The establishment is only a few months old and I have been there before as Candice for a girls night out. I even outed myself to a woman bartender there who knows me as a guy. What crazy fun! I am starting to care less about who knows Candice!


So tonight marks the end of a week were I truly spent more time as Candice than as a man! Other than work and Friday night out for happy hour, I have been dressed as Candice. This is also my third night out as Candice!  Like I have stated before... What a nice way to start off the New Year! Tomorrow I spend the whole day as Candice. I have created a Word Press page that will mirror this blog. So I will be working on that, among other things. I love expressing my inner woman!


Well goodnight my friends! Sleep tight!

XXOO,
Candi

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Out Again! Making Friends, Coming Out, And Picking a LBD


Hi all! Well tonight I had dinner and drinks with two more female friends whom I recently outed myself to. We had a great time. Originally they were going to join me this past Tuesday for the regular girls night out. But both had scheduling conflicts and could not join us. So we picked tonight to get together. The only problem was that when I put fresh batteries in my camera I forgot to put the SD card back in! So no group shot this time, sorry. We did have out cell phones but the lighting was so poor the photos did not come out too good.

The conversation was energetic and wonderful. We covered all the girl talk bullet points... men, ex-husbands (don't have one), a new boyfriend (not me), the inability to find a boyfriend (not looking for one), food and  general gossip. I then gave them my transgender background story. I fielded a few questions and at the end of the night my one girlfriends summed it up perfectly... "I am so glad I have a new girlfriend!"  I love bing one of the girls. Being a boy sucks! I know I have stated this in past posts; Find understand female friends. Be their friend first. Be there for them, support them. Love them like a sister. Be a great friend and a good guy, and the women will support you back. For that matter treat everyone with honesty, integrity and respect. be a person of character and good standing. So when you do come out or get found out... People will stand with you. If not then just be polite and move on with your life. The ones that count are the ones who support with out fail.


In the last 6 days the only time I have dressed in guy drab, has been to go to work, and I love it! This Saturday night there is a black tie/LBD wine tasting party.. I cant wait. combing through my LBD collection and picked out two dresses.The dress above (I love the cutout shoulders. and the way it drapes). And one below ( love the neckline and the ruching). I sent out a email asking my girlfriends to help me choose one. So far everyone loves the dress with the cutout shoulders. And I must say I like it best too. If any of my readers would like to let me know their choice please feel free to post a comment.



Its going to be a interesting event because even though I am very well known to the people going, very few know me as Candice. I am sure I will raise a few eyebrows! But what girl does not like attention! If anyone asks and I feel they are being genuine will be honest about who I am. If they are being an ass, I will just tell then my tux is in the cleaners! I will have a full report on Sunday in the form of a blog post.


Well goodnight everyone! And please follow this blog. Thanks.

Love,
Candi


Tuesday, January 3, 2012

The Case of The "Phanom Bra" And The First Girls Night Out of 2012


It was a strange day today. After spending the three day weekend completely as Candice, it was very odd to get dressed as a guy and go to work! It felt like I was forgetting something the entire day! I even had "phantom bra". After three days wearing a bra I kept wanting to pull up my straps all the time! Being Candice was wonderful way to spend my time off.

Tonight was the first girls night out of the new year. Our regular Tuesday night out. Unfortunately three of the girls came down with a nasty bug and could not make it. Three others had conflicting events, so I will be going out with them on Thursday. Yea! A extra night out as Candice! The four of us who did make it had a blast. We talked about boys (mostly what is wrong with them), dating (why they are not dating...see the first part of the conversation), relationships (why they are so hard... again go back to the first part of the conversation), and food, food and did I mention food? I even read them a message I received on Facebook, from some tranny chaser saying how good I looked and how he and I should start a family! WTF! What color is the sky in that guys world (again please refer to the first part of the conversation)! After I shared the letter with the girls I blocked him.Then I showed them the list of guys I have had to block. One of them said I get more action than they do on their match profile! I told her to just set up a profile as a  crossdresser/transgendered gal and she would get hit on by all the creepy loser guys she ever wanted! Spending time with the girls like this is so much fun. All I do is smile and laugh!

Capping off the week I will be going to a black tie/black dress wine tasting on Saturday night! Now I just need to pick out a LBD out of my collection. (yes I have a collection... only 7 dresses!). It will be a interesting event because the group attending does not know me as Candice or as transgendered at all. I plan on looking as good as I can. It wil be a fun night indeed. Sunday I will be spending entire day as Candice too. I will get up get dressed, put on my face, walk out the door get my coffee and run my errands. Just like this past weekend. That brings us to next Tuesday and our regular girls night out. I am a busy gal and I love it!

All this ties into my plan to spend as much time as I can as a woman. Simply the only time I will be going out as a guy will be for work and the social events that require me to do so. Even at home it is all girl, all the time. After I get cleaned up I get my girl on. regardless of whether I am going out or not. Being Candice is much more natural for me and so relaxing.

When I started outing myself to select friends and letting my feminine side develop more freely, I had no idea it would be this good. I figured I would get out once in a while with accepting friends and be spending more time at home dressing and working on my image/style. Now I am out all the time. My friends not only accept me as Candice but are very active in my female life and supportive beyond anything I could have hoped for. This support and love has allowed me to really look at who I am as a woman and a man. It has also given me a chance to ask myself what I want out of all this.

What I have discovered is that I am much more than the occasional crossedresser. I am truly transgendered and want to live as much of my life as I can as woman. This is not about playing dress up. The clothing and dressing as a woman is the vehicle that allows me to honestly express who I am and how I feel about myself. The sense of liberation I have as a woman is exhilarating.


Well I am off to bed kids. Thanks for reading!

Love Candi. 


Monday, January 2, 2012

Day Three...


Day three of my weekend living "full time" as Candice. The photo above was on my way out to the market to get my coffee. I did the usual, took a nice walk around the plaza window shopping after I got my cup of joe. It was a cool and crisp this morning and the vest was perfect for the temperature. I love the dark jeans and the booties too. I felt so sharp and hip! I guess I am just a city girl. I was checking out White House Black Market, when a woman walked up and made a comment about a really nice top and jacket in the store. I said I loved the outfit too but I doubt I could get it in my size being a bigger gal. Now I do not talk in a false feminine voice, I do speak softer but I do not try to fake it. She turned to me and said... "its a shame, that would look great on you!" Wow... that was cool! I was a foot taller in my 3 inch heels after that!

Back stepping a little to last night. My girlfriend Jennifer was over for dinner. Well she wanted me to show her how I do my eye makeup and show her the Bare Essentials mineral make up I use. What a complement that was. Jennifer is stunning and she wants tips from me! Can my girl ego take any more!?! Well I showed her how I did my eyes and she loved the Bare Essentials so much that she is gong to ULTA today to get some. Sharing things like that and spending quality time with other women is so amazing. What a gift it is to be part of the feminine world.


This photo is what I am wearing now. In addition to posting on this blog I am doing some paperwork for my business. So I thought a office/work look would be nice. Another girlfriend is coming over for a late lunch in a while. I believe there will be some cone-of-silence serious girl talk involved. Cant wait! And I am running a few loads of laundry (how domestic). Not sure why I mentioned the laundry? Well I got to run. Tomorrow its a work day in guy drab... But its only for a few hours then its out for a night with my girlfriends.

These last few days have been so much fun. It really has been like a vacation away. Being Candice feels so natural and honest to who I am. I love being able to express the woman inside me. Every minute I spend as a woman is a gift. Such a wonderful way to start the new year!


I guess you can call the above photo a "parting shot" I never knew what I looked like from behind... Now I do! Not a bad looking butt. I am kind of partial to it...its mine. LOL.

Love,
Candi.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Day Two & Tranny Chasers Need Not Apply.


So my weekend as Candice continues. I got up this morning took a shower and got ready for the day. I went to the market and got my Illy coffee and picked up my laundry (I have my work clothing done for me). The girls at the Laundry loved it! the people at the market seemed to not notice. How fun and liberating! So much fun to start your day putting on  makeup to go out! I made a fresh tuna salad with mixed greens for lunch. Yummy! And tonight it is pizza with Jen at the "lady-cave".

I elected to stay in last night and relax. I thought I would be in bed early, but that did not happen! I ended up watching one movie after another. One of my favorites was on. Ice Station Zebra. A cold war era thriller from the 1950's. That pushed me up to almost 2AM! All in all it was a wonderful night in, sprinkled with drunk texting from my friends who were out and about.

On my Facebook page I get constantly get friend requests and messages from men looking for gurls like myself. Even though on my profile I clearly state I have no interest in men and I will automatically block any who contact me. So far I have blocked over 50 men! I am disgusted by the fact that no one reads the profile!  I guess I am just expecting too much. The ones that bother me the most are the men looking for some kind of blatant sexual contact. The truly offensive ones are the messages with photos of genitals or worse... a hairy package stuffed in some awful lace panties! What is wrong with people. Now I really should not make that kind of statement. I know it should be "to each their own". I would just like to see some respect for other people. If your into hairy packages in panties, fine. But please have a conversation/message exchange first to see if the other person shares your interest! Have some dignity and class. And don't forget to to try and use complete sentences. Not some texting shorthand. OK that was my rant for this post.

I truly wish everyday could be spent as a woman. and just be a guy only when it is required! I still have all day tomorrow and Tuesday night after work for girls night out! Heaven!  I have started adding magazine subscriptions to my Nook Tablet. Lucky, In Style, People's Style Watch etc... I adore that little device. I have even bookmarked a lot of my favorite blogs. I still love my Knidle e-reader. But with the color screen the Nook rocks for web and periodicals.

Jen is coming over in a while so I am going tto read and relax till she gets here. Hope everyone is enjoying the first day of 2012!

With love,
Candi